Seems I Am Not The Only One....
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Originally posted by [info]morgandawn at Seems I Am Not The Only One....
......who feels the need to take a break from an increasingly dysfunctional relationship.

Black March - Thursday March 1st 2012 to Saturday March 31st 2012 With the continuing campaigns for internet-censoring litigation such as SOPA and PIPA, and the closure of sites like Megaupload under allegations of 'piracy' and 'conspiracy' the time has come to take a stand against music, film, and media companies' lobbyists. The only way is to hit them where it hurts. Their profit margins. March 2012 is the end of the First Quarter in economic reports world wide. Do not buy a single record. Do not download a single song, legally or illegally. Do not go to see a single film in cinemas, or download a copy. Do not buy a DVD in the stores. Do not buy a videogame. Do not buy a single book or magazine. Wait the four weeks to buy them in April: see a film later, etc... Holding out for just four weeks, maximum, will leave a gaping hole in media companies profits for the first quarter, an economic hit which will in turn be observed by governments world wide as stocks and shares will blip from a large enough loss of incomes. This action will give a statement of intent: "We will not tolerate the Media Industries' lobbying for legislation that will censor the internet."
Original image and campaign source: reddit.

Edited to add my own thoughts (not part of the original reddit call for action) And if you do not feel like taking a total break and perhaps want just a trial separation or couple's counseling, then perhaps consider Black March Lite 2.0 = spend, but spend money on those content creators and independent retailers who came out against SOPA/PIPA.  And tell them why you're buying their products in March.  There are many of them.

And for those who favor the more targeted boycott, you can find info  here.  But no matter which,  you can participate and you can tailor your level of participation.  We have the tools, the will and the strength to take a stand.


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Black March - Thursday March 1st 2012 to Saturday March 31st 2012
With the continuing campaigns for internet-censoring litigation such as SOPA and PIPA, and the closure of sites like Megaupload under allegations of 'piracy' and 'conspiracy' the time has come to take a stand against music, film, and media companies' lobbyists.
The only way is to hit them where it hurts.
Their profit margins.
March 2012 is the end of the First Quarter in economic reports world wide.
Do not buy a single record. Do not download a single song, legally or illegally. Do not go to see a single film in cinemas, or download a copy. Do not buy a DVD in the stores. Do not buy a videogame. Do not buy a single book or magazine.
Wait the four weeks to buy them in April: see a film later, etc... Holding out for just four weeks, maximum, will leave a gaping hole in media companies profits for the first quarter, an economic hit which will in turn be observed by governments world wide as stocks and shares will blip from a large enough loss of incomes. This action will give a statement of intent:
"We will not tolerate the Media Industries' lobbying for legislation that will censor the internet."

Bridget - Wonder Woman
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Don't really know how I feel about this. I know there were many fans that thought she would be perfect for the role. And I have to say, I think that she 'could have been'  a wonderful Wonder Woman. But I'm mostly happy actually that it will not be her. It is too much 'like Kahlan'. I don't want her stereotyped. And, more importantly, I have no confidence in people pulling off a believable series around this character.
What do you think?

Presentation award
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Yesterday was Molecular Medicine day. Once a year, the 'best and brightest'  are invited to give a presentation about their work. This year, I was invited to present my work on bladder cancer. The organizing committee promised an award for the best presentation. However, it is never really clear what the criteria are for such an award.

I did not even stick around for the announcements, but I did not win. However, I was approached by (let me count) at least 12 people I did not know that wanted to tell me how much they liked my presentation. (And believe me, that's an enormous response)

Personally, I think it's all political. And I hate it.

1. I'm not in the 'most popular'  group in the research school.
2. I had the very first presentation. The very last won.
3. My research does not focus on very 'visual'  stuff. I have graphs and statistics, no movies.
4. My boss even asked me today on her free day via email if I won. Like, totally casually, maybe, by coincidence, or...?

Still, I did learn something. It's not about the message. It's about entertainment. Next time, I'm going to do it differently.

Love isn't something to fear - or hide
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Okay, let me start by saying that I'm surprised and shocked, but in a good way. Frankie Jean is born, somewhere around Christmas, maybe even a few days earlier. Luckily almost no-one asked me: he, didn't you talk to her on November 5, with your Skype session? Couldn't you tell?

No. I couldn't. And I'm surprised by that as well. Yes, I know, you only see the upper body part of someone with a web cam, but she should have been like 7.5 months. On the other hand, I had a daughter myself and I'm pretty sure that nobody could tell I was pregnant at 7 months when sitting behind a desk...

I am also a little surprised by the fact that she apparently really did not want people to know. It's her decision, I respect that of course. I fully respect her wish or need not to have your personal life all over the place. But I do not really understand.

In my teenage years, I had a girlcrush on a Dutch popstar. She was in a band and world famous 'all over the Netherlands' during her twenties. No time for babies, career came first. When the band stopped, she was 29 and ready for kids. Unfortunately for her, it was also the end of her relation and it took her a few years to find someone else to start a family with. By that time she was 36 and a well-known and respected TV personality. She was asked to host a live cultural event called the 'Uitmarkt'. She entered the spotlights and sang a beautiful song. And what no-one really knew or suspected, was pretty clear at that moment: she was very pregnant.



I thought (and still think) she was the most beautiful pregnant woman ever! And she seemed so confident and proud to show it to the world!
I do have to remark though, that even in the Netherlands, in 1995, this still caused quite some commotion: people felt like you should not 'expose' yourself like that, as a woman. Come on, do we have to hide in a cave until the baby is born then? Secondly, she was not married. So? She was in a stable relationship. And even if she was not and just wanted to be a single mom, then what? I don't see the problem.

As far as I know, B is in a stable relationship. She has the age to have and want children. I think that it would have been possible to work a pregnancy into the series if it hadn't been canceled, the books give enough room for that. The series could have been put on hold for a while even. So why the secrecy? I mean, I adore B, but she's not that big a celebrity (yet) to be stalked by paparazzi all the time, is she?

Call me a hopeless romantic, but I still think that babies are the result of the love people share for one another, and therefore one of the most precious things in the world. In LOTS, they say 'love isn't something to fear'. But I would say it isn't something to hide as well!

Writer's Block: Time after time
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If you fall in love with a book or movie, do you tend to watch/read it again and again? If so, what's your upper limit on repeats?

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Yes, many times. Don't know my upper limit, but I know it's more than 20...

Writer's Block: Do you want to know a secret?
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Which song by The Beatles is your favorite, and why?

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hmm, none. Beatles is before my time. Never acquired a taste for it.

Writer's Block: Expand on this
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Where do you draw the line between habit and addiction? What's the longest uninterrupted period of time you spent gaming?

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I think I draw the line at whether or not it influences your interactions with other people (or 'normal life'). If you are going to be bitching to your daughter for wanting attention, you're addicted. I think my longest session is like 6 to 8 hours.

Writer's Block: Since you've been gone
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Do you keep in touch with any of your exes on LiveJournal or other social networking sites? When an ex friends you, do you usually friend them back? Why or why not?

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Yes and yes. I am not in the habit of breaking up the hard way. I don't have any ex-friends. Ex-lovers, okay, but not ex-friends.

Skyping with Bridget Regan, part 2
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WARNING: This was much more difficult than I expected. I am NOT good in giving a literal translation from anything said. My memory does not work that way. I wrote down some points after the meeting, and I’ll try to describe them to you. All of this is paraphrasing and from my memory, therefore may not be 100% accurate.

Two days after the initial contact without video, I was contacted again for a new appointment, somewhere the next week. If I could indicate when I was available. I’m available anytime you want, of course! And finally, we agreed on Friday, November 5. I decided to try to Skype at work, (even bought me another webcam) because it did not work at home and on Friday evening nobody is working there so I had the whole place to myself. And of course, at that particular Friday everyone was working late, so that was not helping in letting me feel relaxed and prepared. I totally imagined myself being interrupted all the time because my colleagues kept entering the room….

(BTW: my colleagues did not really understand why I was behaving the way I did. I’m a pretty relaxed girl normally. Really not someone getting all excited over meeting some celebrity they don’t even know. Who are you going to Skype with? Never heard of…)

Half an hour before the expected time, I threw my colleagues out of the room – convincing them that the weekend had started for them. Go home! Then I had to wait for another hour or so before I got an email that it would take another few minutes. And finally… I was called again. I kept my fingers crossed that it would work this time, and yes, video worked.

There she was, on the screen. It must have been nice weather there (she said something like that), because she was wearing much less than I was (a sleeveless shirt or something). On her head, she was wearing a baseball cap with NY on it.

(BTW: I really love the sound of her voice. Other people have said before that she makes you feel at easy very quick. It’s true.)  

As far as I understood, she was in Los Angeles, trying to get her new home in order. She said something like that it needed a little more decorating. She also said that they chose to live in Los Angeles (instead of New York) because it was closer to her own family and closer to New Zealand. She also said that she was going back to New Zealand soon because one of their friends was getting married. We talked about how she does not like cars, does not like to drive. She said this is because of living in New York, and that she was used to do everything by public transport, but that’s not possible in Los Angeles.

She wanted to know how I learned about Legend of the Seeker, and I told her that we just downloaded it from the internet by accident, and how I originally thought that it was some Scandinavian show because our downloads had Scandinavian (I know, it’s not a country, but I don’t know the difference between the languages, sorry!) subtitles. I told her I bought the first two books after watching the first two episodes, and that when I read the first book I could not believe that they were actually going to portray everything like in the books (they are pretty dark and violent, in my opinion). She said something like well it was still a Disney show, and that she thought that it actually worked quite well the way they did it, and I said I liked the show better than the books, and that I probably would not have read the books if not for the series. She said that a lot of people bought the books because of the show, and we discussed the fact that the author (Terry Goodkind) first was not a fan of the show, but when he saw what effect it had on the book sales he became a supporter… She has not met Terry Goodkind in person. We also talked a little bit about downloading or buying a show via iTunes (and that I in the Netherlands cannot buy an American show via iTunes, and she knew that because she has an American account and bought Seeker episodes for other people to watch in New Zealand) or watching it via Netflix (we don’t have that here).

She wanted to know what my favorite episode was, and I told her I do not really have a favorite one, I like them all. I told her that I did not like the episode Walter as much as the other ones. I tried to explain why, that I saw that episode at a moment when it was clear that there was not going to be a third season and that I wanted to see other things happening! She said if I meant that it felt a little bit like a filler episode, and I said yes, and that for me personally they should have left Darken Rahl dead! But she said it’s Seeker, no one is ever really dead is he! And I had to agree on that.

I cannot remember what we discussed that led us talking about corsets. But I did ask her what would have happened if Seeker would have run for seven seasons. Would she still be ‘happy’ wearing that? She told me that she is used to them, because in a lot of theatre plays women also have to wear those things (it’s also a vanity thing, she said, it does make you look good) and even more restricting ones. But for Seeker, the problem was mostly with the action stuff where you have to be able to move more. She said that caused her a lot of pain in her back, up to a point where her back muscles really started to protest by giving her a severe case of muscle cramp. As a remedy, she told, during the last episodes, between scenes someone would open up the corset in the back, and she would just stand there, waiting, everything hanging loosely around her, for the next scene.  I did not tell her, but to me that paints a powerful picture ;D.

She said that someone told her (Bruce Spence?) that scifi/fantasy fans are very, very loyal, like 1 fan is worth like 10 ‘normal’ fans. We tried to come up with a reason why, but could not decide on that. She regretted not being able to go to one of the conventions, because she had heard from other people that that was a pretty intense experience.

She asked what else I wanted to know about Legend, but I asked her if she could tell something about the movie The Best and the Brightest, and she explained that she could do that between season one and two and that she had a great time doing that, and that she really enjoyed working with Neil Patrick Harris. She also said that it was a very funny movie, but she said something like (I’m not really sure) that it’s a kind of humor that might not be appreciated by everyone. She has not seen the movie herself yet, just a semi-final version that could be totally different than the final one. I told her I knew about the Philadelphia screening, and if it was to be expected that there were going to be more screenings, and if I was ever going to be able to see it, but she was very realistic about that and said something like that if someone would be interested in distributing the movie it probably would have happened already, but that there’s  a chance I can see it on DVD eventually.

I asked her about Camp Wanatachi, and you could really see her face lit up at that. She even said that she was glad that I asked about that (how could I not?). She said that it’s much fun, but also an enormous amount of work. They recently had new castings for the musical and they really are looking for ways to raise more money. You need a lot of money to be able to get it up and running the way they want it, and especially when they are aiming for a longer run. She also said that it is not done for a producer to put your own money in the project (and I personally would say that that is only common sense!). I asked her if she liked producing and why, and she said that when acting, people tell you where to stand, what to wear, how to walk, what to say, how to say it, and that you sometimes want to have more control over it. She said that of course the actor must bring the personality to life, and that she really loved acting, but that the control part was most likely the reason that a lot of actors also want to be involved in other ways. She also said something like (I don’t know anymore how or in which context she said it) sometimes it feels for actors like you do your part and than you can go (like thanks we don’t need you anymore now), like you are not suppost to care about the total end product (I’m not sure if I’m saying this right, but to me it felt like she definitely does, and that this part of the job can feel a bit shallow…)

I asked her about what she would really like to do, if all option were open. She told me that she would really like to learn from other people, other great actors. She said that as an example, she enjoyed working with Michael Nouri (who played her father in Bound). She thought he was a great actor and an inspiring personality. And of course, she would like to work with someone like Meryl Streep, she said, but what actor wouldn’t? I tried to press a little more about what she wanted, if it was really up to her, and if she preferred TV or movie or theatre or producing, but she just laughed like she could not really decide and finally said musical. (Now I really want to hear her sing)

She did not seem to have any other future plans besides Camp Wanatachi, or nothing that could be openly discussed. She said that they were busy making an overview of noticeable moments from Seeker to add to her portfolio to show casting agents. She said that was actually very difficult, because she does not like looking at herself. She says that she keeps seeing things that she would like to do different the next time. I joked about that Seeker fans would gladly make a portfolio for her, she just has to tweet about that and she will probably get complete portfolios/showcases/even movies about what fans think are the best moments to show! She laughed and said she would think about that… (It’s a joke, folks, please don’t actually do it. Unless she asks for it, of course…;))

She wanted to know about me, what I did for a living, where I was, about my family. I asked her if she had ever been to the Netherlands, but she had not. She wanted to know about my hobbies, and I said I’m trying to learn how to play guitar but that I think it’s very difficult. She immediately asked if my fingertips were painful now (yes they are..). She said she used to play, and she mentioned that Craig (Horner) is very good at it and that Michael Nouri plays Spanish guitar very beautifully. She asked if I had any pets, and I said yes, two rabbits. She told about Henry being there with her, and that she really misses her dog (he’s still in New Zealand) but thinks it’s for the best (because it’s not a dog that would be happy in the city).

Then she said that for the script, she picked the one from the episode “Mirror” (1.18). She said she did not keep all scripts from the show, but that this one had very interesting notes from her on it. She said that when I got the script, I would think she was completely insane! She said that twice during the conversation, so now she really has me looking forward to it! She also asked if I would be offended by certain language….I assured her that would not be the case. And she made me promise I won’t scan it in or something like that to put it on the internet. I promised. Sorry folks. I had to be patient though, because there’s still coming stuff over from New Zealand so whatever she will send might be in one of the many boxes in her house. Furthermore, she wanted to know if I wanted her to put something personal on the photo, other than just sign it. I think you can guess my answer to that one.

And then she had to move on. I totally did not notice that we were already chatting for 45 minutes. I hope she enjoyed it as well, and that I was not too shy/quiet/boring. Let me finish by saying that she really is a very sweet and nice person to talk with. And I so much hope to hear and see a lot more of her. And her script will be treasured.


Skyping with Bridget Regan part 1, background story
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Of course, I know people are waiting to hear from me about chatting/skyping with Bridget Regan. Okay, here we go: for the ones not interested in the background, see the next entry.

I’m from the Netherlands. I’ve been watching Legend of the Seeker from the very beginning. Just stumbled upon it via internet, in our everlasting search for entertaining TV, mostly scifi and/or fantasy shows. Legend was never broadcasted in the Netherlands. I was not familiar with the books, I had never heard of Bridget Regan before, so we just watched the first two-parter and were immediately hooked. I googled the internet and found out that it was based on a series of books, bought the first two and read them during the first few episodes.

I think that what made it so appealing that first season, was that the main characters looked so natural. I even wondered about the fact that the female lead was comfortable enough with her own image that she would go without (maybe not, of course, it’s television after all, but it looked that way and it suited the story) additional make-up. That was what she looked like, natural, with freckles and all, and I loved her for it. The second season changed that a little bit, but every week we were sitting on the couch and being impressed with the beauty of the show. I sincerely have not ever seen a show that is as visually stunning as Seeker. Furthermore, I have seen very few shows with such strong female characters!

When I found out the series would not be continued after two seasons, I tried my bit of support via the Save Our Seeker campaign, so now I have a season 1 region 1 DVD signed by Terry Goodkind and some funny stuff like a coffee mug and cap. I also have the region 2 DVD, by the way, and I’m waiting for season 2 to be released for region 2…. And yes I would very much like to see some form of continuation of the series, but (don’t shoot me…) I would also love to see Bridget in other things!

I was aware of Bridget’s involvement with Camp Wanatachi. I supported the Kickstarter action to raise money for the concert version, and if it had been my big wish to Skype with her, I really could have done it for a lot less money there… Don’t get me wrong: it’s not that I did not want to talk with her, but I could not imagine myself doing that… I’m a lousy conversationalist. Add to that the fact that I totally imagined myself regressing back to the immensely shy 12-year- old I used to be when confronted with the person that I’ve been pretty much infatuated with the last two seasons…. You get the picture, I hope.

I had only recently started using Twitter, so I completely would have missed the Twitchange thing otherwise. After the first few days, I could not believe people were actually willing to pay hundreds of dollars just to get someone to follow you on Twitter. I would not do that. Of course, it was not about that, it was about Haiti. But if they really wanted to raise as much money as possible, couldn’t they have come up with something that would also allow people that are only able to donate a few bucks to feel like they actually won something with it? (Actually, a lot of the auctions were won by companies, most likely for advertisement purposes.)

It was the script that did it for me. I had already decided it was not worth it, and thought about donating anonymously. When B tweeted about the script, I actually found myself thinking: maybe I would be willing to try to win this thing. It would be like I did something to make two parties happy (Haiti and Bridget), but in a non-confrontational way (the twitter stuff I do not really care about, do you really think the celebrities involved are going to check what you tweet?) AND I would get something unique and personal (the script). Someone withdrew his or her bid, and that’s when I saw an opportunity. I placed a bid, only to be directly outbid by someone via automatic bidding. I tried a few times, but eventually I gave up.

The last day of the auction I was just staring at the screen trying to come up with reasons NOT to bid again. But since it was almost my birthday, a little voice inside my head kept saying that it would be a nice present… (and of course another voice saying it was okay since the money would be well spent, etc. Everything to make yourself feel better about it.) When one hour before the end of the auction I got the message that I was the highest bidder, you should have seen me behind my computer, shouting to the screen: ‘come on, someone, bid, or I really have to pay!’. (I have no regrets, though..)

Twitchange send me a form to fill in what I wanted as a ‘shout out’ and as a ‘retweet’. As a shout out I indicated that I did not care and she could come up with whatever she wanted. It took me some time to come up with something that I thought would be nice as a retweet. You had to fill in the exact date and time for both, plus the timezone where you were.  But apparently that information was not very well relayed to the celebrities by Twitchange, since both were, in my case, much earlier than the date I had indicated (you don’t hear me complaining though, a lot of the winners had to wait much longer than they expected, and even now, more than a week after the indicated deadline only 80% of the tweets are out…).  

The 14th of October, I received a DM in Twitter, where Bridget wanted to know my email address to contact me. I send her the address and a few days later I was contacted by her assistant asking me if I would be willing to sign a contract not to record anything. Since I read all about other Skype sessions, I knew that was coming and replied that it was no problem. Then it took another few days to get a reply and the contract to sign. Eventually, we picked Monday the 26th. However, that was changed to Tuesday, and then Wednesday. I took a free day that Wednesday and tried to make sure that everything would work, since I had never Skyped before. Install program, update computer, update webcam, test Skype by calling some friends… everything seemed in order. I did not prepare a list of questions or things that I wanted to talk about. It would not work in my hands. I did not want to interrogate her, I just wanted to chat and see what happened.

About 10 minutes after the expected time, I received the call and answered. I confirmed that it was me, and she could see me, but for one reason or the other, I could not see her. We decided to retry, she even contacted me via another account (“don’t tell” she said), I hopped over to another computer, but to no avail. Rescheduling, it was the only option. And a few minutes after everything started, it was over.

Why did it not work? We’ll never know.

to be continued…


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